.Yet what Astrid does not notice yet is actually an honest truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that possesses 2 sons-- can confirm: The simple fact that your partnership along with your moms and dads modifications as well as evolves as you each get older, and also with any luck right. "Your globe facilities around [your children] when they are actually little ones [and also] it's a great deal job yet wonderful," O'Hara says. "Eventually, you really miss that, given that at that point you can't receive them to perform everything you prefer all of them to accomplish, because they start developing their own minds, their very own viewpoints." And ultimately, you wind up in the place O'Hara, whose kids remain in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself today, able to learn from her children. "They are actually just such great young guys," she says. "I'm certainly not their friend, but I love possessing discussions with them as well as being familiar with exactly how they think about life.".